The longest post... Friends

I came across blog Aku Betul (sorry, i don't know how to put link here since i'm blogging from mobile phone) last night, read about friendship. And that is his longest post. I've been thinking to do something similar. Posting the longest post in this blog.
First thing that came across my mind is how we measure the longest??? Of course we need to compare to something. What is that something? My option are: 1)my past posting. That will be very easy because the longest post i've ever made is only one and half page on microsoft word. 2) industry standard. This option is very difficult because i have no idea about industry standard. Some bloggers are former reporter or editor or any professional writer which they can write with ideas like water flowing in the river. Smooth and endless. 3) since i'm inspired by brother dood from Aku Betul, i can use his post as the benchmark. Beat his post by one word, or write this post at similar lenght with his post. What are other options that i have? I think that enough la. If i want to take the industry standard, it will take days for me to complete this post. So i will take in between my post and mr dood post. Not very easy and not very tough. This introduction is very long already. Hehehe.
Okay let start. Friend. Friendship. How many friend that i have? How many of then can i call best friend? For me, even the definition of best friend change all the time. But what will never change is there are a few friend that i always feel comfortable to be with, comfortable to talk to, never worry to get blame and i always willing to do anything for them. There are some sort of chemistry that we have. However, even that kind of friend come and go in life. Why?
To answer that, i have to analyse my life. I think it is because everybody have their own life. When our lifes path crossed, that where we met. When we met, especially this special friend, we live the moment. Enjoy what life have to offer to us.
And when life change, and we need to go in different direction, i usually let go and not trying to keep up or trying to keep in touch. Will it make me a bad type of friend? Maybe. But i always hope that they will have a good happy lifes. As good as mine or even better.
Can we have a very good friend who we can share everything? And why we need a friend where we can share everything in the first place? I guess its human nature that we need to share especially our fears, worries, pain, and joy of our life. By sharing it with someone, it like having their shoulder to help us going through the pain, or a shoulder to cry on is like some body help us to carry the burden of our life. Having good friends is a bless of life. It make it easier for us to face challenge in life, to face the tough times and make good time feel even better. It make the moment when we achieve something meaningful. There a saying 'to win and to love is the best thing'.
Can a guy and a girl be best friend? Can they become so close without falling in love? Can they share every thing, every good moment, every worries and dear without without being misunderstood by their lover? Its a very difficult question with no right answer that fit every situation. Everybody will have their own view based on their understanding and experience. My view? I think a guy and a girl can be best friend as long as they know the limit. And they know how to take care other people feelings, be it jealousy, perception, or even time spent with the friend and their lover. Another important aspect is we should never compare best friend and our lover. Its a no no. For me, no matter how good the friend to us, whether guy or girl, my family will have the priority for my time, efforts and other resources.
Another emerging friendship type nowadays is cyber friends.
Why people have cyber friends? Having fun, have somebody to talk to especially on the dark chapter of their life without being judge, without being ashame and without worries that the people we met know our secret. And still we can share and release the burden. In cyber world, we also can be as perfect as we want. We can create our personality in there. And there still people who are very comfortable to be just themselves in there.
We get connected through messenger, forums, personal blog, friendship websites and the list goes on... Some cyber relationship transform into real world and some even get married with their cyber friend. I have a number of cyber friends myself. Some of them i've never met while some other became my good friends whether that relationship stay in the cyber world or became friend in the real world. However, we need to keep online to keep in touch of which some people not.
I think this post is very long already. The longest if compared to my other posts. I dont know whether its close to the or dood Aku Betul post or not and i don't want to bother. I'm sure there a lot of spelling error n grammatical error in this post. Forgive me.

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